I've made this sugestion before but a really nice place to have a meet would be at Lime Rock. I went to the races there this last Memorial Day. It is an easy drive from the NY NJ area. They have free camping. They have a liberal policy concerning heavy partying. You can have your own car corral. When you look up scenic in the dictionary they have a picture of this place. Race cars pop wheelies going up hill. You can walk the whole track and watch the race from whereever you please. You can go into the paddock and talk to the techs and the drivers. They put my 6 year old son into a totally race built Corvette. His smile was a mile wide. They have can diving, do not land on your face. Any how, cool destination, place to gather, place to stay over, other stuff to entertain, and that liberal policy concerning partying.4th of July weekend is coming up.